Malo E Lelei, Welcome to the home of San francisco bay area tongan association

  • Family is everything. Extended families live close and help each other every day.

  • Respect is shown with gestures and words. Younger people bow slightly or touch elders’ hands to their forehead to show honor.

  • Church is central. Most Tongans attend church regularly and faith guides daily life and celebrations.

  • Tongan greetings are warm — a smile, a friendly “Mālō e lelei” (hello), and a hug or kiss among family.

  • Food brings people together. Common dishes include taro, fish, chicken, and ʻota ʻika (marinated raw fish). Big feasts happen for weddings and birthdays.

  • Dance and music are proud traditions. The lakalaka and tauʻolunga are important dances performed at gatherings.

  • Tapa cloth (ngatu) and woven mats are treasured art forms, used for special gifts and home decoration.

  • Chiefs and community leaders hold respected roles; decisions are often made with community harmony in mind.

  • Tongans value hospitality — visitors are welcomed warmly and generously.

  • Tongue is Tongan (lea faka-Tonga), but many also speak English, especially younger people and those abroad.

Our Tongan Culture

Our Roots

Bringing together Tongans in San Francisco to keep our culture alive and strong.

Close-up of hands weaving a traditional Tongan mat, symbolizing heritage and connection.
Close-up of hands weaving a traditional Tongan mat, symbolizing heritage and connection.

Our Projects

Empowering Tongans through culture and community.

A vibrant group of Tongan youth performing a traditional dance in San Francisco.
A vibrant group of Tongan youth performing a traditional dance in San Francisco.
Youth Workshops

Hands-on lessons in Tongan language and crafts.

Community members gathered around a table preparing traditional Tongan food.
Community members gathered around a table preparing traditional Tongan food.
Cultural Events

Celebrations that bring our community together.